Thankyou for sharing Tereza: the impacts of abuse is a burden that must be shared among all who are trying to improve society. We have experienced a similar situation in our family, although fortunately children were not involved, and the abuse was psychological rather than physical (well, physical in terms of violence, because there is always a sexual component).
I am no fan of State intervention in personal and family life, for obvious reasons that have emerged over the last 3 and a half years. But there’s no doubt that for an unfortunate few who find themselves in situations of domestic abuse, we need institutions to intervene. There may not be a more morally vexing issue in society than domestic abuse and how we respond to it, particularly when it involves children.
I'm sorry for the situation in your family, Isaac. There are so many layers to abuse.
I wonder sometimes if it would be better without the institutions, since they so often seem to be the problem. And the extreme dependence of mothers on men for housing, in particular. I wonder how things might be different if we had matrilineal inheritance, so there would always be somewhere for mothers and their children to go.
I'm glad you put 'father' in quotes, William. Yes, I don't think there's any greater example of toxic masculinity than a 'father' like this. The daughter also looks just like her mom, which might be a factor, and has her mom's stubbornness, which I think is serving her well.
Thank you for sharing and I've added these people to my prayers. I have no ability to suggest how this woman can proceed beyond the obvious don't stop the fight.
Like you I condemn the use of 'pedophilia' as a normalising word for abuse. Likely 30 years ago I did my best to suggest that 'misopediatry' or similar become the word used to describe the truth of what is being done. It is a huge sign, imo, that societally we have normalised the word 'pedophilia' as the sexual abuse of children. How different has that been than to use SIDS to normalise a child's death by injection.
Very good points all, Guy. I know the power of prayer is very meaningful to the mom.
Interesting that you also objected to the word.
On a happier note, I've been listening to Kerala Dust all night. And I showed my friend the videos of them and Laura Mvula, and she was gratifyingly blown away. For others, I'll link them here: Kerala Dust's Maria, with some great dancing. https://youtu.be/IoN_ZaoFSW8 and Laura Mvula https://youtu.be/hYjHixQ9Ns4.
There are several that I've been thinking I want to share with you but this is one of my favorites: Sun el-Musician's Uhuru: https://youtu.be/09AAsYxpiJk. I've never seen the video before but it seems sort of appropriate to the theme.
I enjoyed the video, thank you for sharing. In an interesting correlation to the themes of Carole King, the lyrics are stuck in a kind of victim mode. Ah, co-dependency and disempowerment floating around our orifices. Is that a measure of better seeing skills or being overly perspicacious? LOL! [Shrug.] Gracias.
Oh now I see them under the video. Coming from South Africa, I'd interpret them as more militant than victim. It seems to be a call to fight back. I don't understand the specific issues like 'fees must fall' but I can see how you would feel that reading the lyrics. Here's another of my favorite Sun el-Musician called Garden with this description "Incorporating electro pop, heartfelt lyrics “Garden” reminds us that we are loved and everything worthy begins from the inside out. So “plant your garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers” : https://youtu.be/K09EbOCfoGU.
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So great that this music was well received and will spread. This kind of music has the power to heal. I felt the pain ease from my upper arms and shoulders the other day with Kerala Dust!
Prayers have been actually 'scientifically' (is it credible to use that word now that we have fully become aware we are living in the age of scientism?) proven.
Hmmm. Wasn't one of Gulliver's travels to a place of scientism? Time to re-read that book, I think.
And I'll listen to Uhuru later today. And is that a small synhchronicity? Yesterday my friends where I'm visiting were talking about the officer on the Starship Enterprise, UhurA. Maybe a stretch!? And yet... Life does have a delightful and subtle sense of humour, so maybe not. (And then I think of Laurie Anderson's concert, 'The Speed of Darkness' where she narrates the basic theme of the entire Startrek Series brilliantly, as being one of losing and regaining control. Song and life: is there a separation? LoL!)
All the best, with peace, respect, love and gratitude.
There are no small synchronicities, Guy, only ones that make you chuckle and ones that make you gasp ;-) It's like the Course saying there is no order of difficulty in miracles. If it's a dream, you can find a lost shoe as easily as saving the world. Once you know that you're doing it, nothing's any harder than anything else. However, I'm still looking for my lost shoe ;-)
Glad to have the spiritual connection between us, Guy.
Tereza, what an absolutely horrific but all too believable report. Thank you for bringing the information forward. I know a little about human trafficking and satanic ritual abuse of both children and adults from having followed Sarah Westall for many years, including reports like this:
Sadly, I do not know what to suggest apart from perhaps researching ideas and the experiences of others at Sarah's website. I know she has covered child rescue. Sorry for such a weak reply. One feels so helpless.
I read some of Sarah's article but I'm not sure I can read anymore before bed. Yes, I know some about the police corruption in trafficking, and also the Iraq veterans code of silence, which includes this guy.
I'm glad you're still reading, Tirion, I was afraid I'd offended you with my last comment about reading my book. It's hard to convey tone of voice in text, but I meant my chiding to be teasing, not lecturing.
Tereza, that article is one of so many, and probably not even the most pertinent. One could spend all day! In the circumstances, you could consider writing directly to Sarah to discover what her knowledge and experience would suggest: sarahw at galexconsulting dot com ?
As for your last comment, it was a completely fair tease and I certainly did not take offense. It is true that I have not read your book and therefore comment from a place of ignorance. Unfortunately, I am partially-sighted and, while I can manage the internet using a large-screen TV, books are a somewhat laborious challenge and rather tiring. I wish it were otherwise, but there we are! No fault.
In 1996 my ex's daughter and I had a long conversation in private where she told me that it was a great relief when I moved in with them because I became her shield. I took the brunt of the abuse. I promised her I would do everything in my power to stay long enough for her to be able to stand on her own.
In 2003, twenty years ago later this fall, she moved out and went to university. I moved out in late November, and her mother moved out the week before I did. The house was sold, of course.
Today I finished off my bonus daughter's cherry wood kitchen counter. It is now beautiful. An early birthday present.
That's such a beautiful story, thank you for telling me. I've been hearing more and more about women who are the abusers, including the one I call the evil step in this story. From the daughter, she's the one who's physically hit, slammed, choked and beaten them.
I have some bonus daughters myself, friends of my daughters who came from abusive and dysfunctional families. Their loss, my gain. Your bonus daughter is fortunate to have had someone as strong as you enter her life.
I just had a need to a) point out that not all men are the bad guys, and b) the woman in the relationship isn't always the victim.
My questions are: Does the judge have any sons? Do they have abusive spouses. In that case it's an explanation, but no excuse for her neglecting her duties.
If I've indicated that I think all men are the bad guys, please let me know so I can change that. We live in a system that's chewing everyone up and spitting them out, men and women. It is, however, a patriarchal system that serves the ejaculations of men who get off on wielding power over others. And there are plenty of women like Hilary or Vicki Nuland who I call patriarchs without penises. Ending the system that gives power over others is my goal, not blaming individuals.
If I were to get psychological, I might look at the judge's relationship with her own mother. And whether she doesn't have kids and resents mothers. But the explanation on the surface is purely monetary. She gained financially from every mother forced to hire her husband just to stay out of her court. The deeper, darker question is why the Judicial Review Board protected her despite the numerous complaints and well-documented pattern of bias. We know that a child-rape network exists at the highest level of the political, economic and judicial systems. Is favoring abusive dads, which was her reputation, a way of making victims available to a perpetrator network?
No, no, no, no, no, no, no! No! By no means, Misunderstand me correctly.
Remember the psy-op Sonny and Chere? Chere and her record company made big money for a while.
Remember the psy-op Ike and Tina? Her career got a new start. She even made it to the silver screen.
Rember the psy-op "The Burning Bed"? I saw it when it came out. Then I saw it again during the nineties. When the cabinet with the towels was opened I freaked out.
This gives me a little bit better context, after reading your previous post. Bias judges is one of the issues in family court trafficking I advocate for.
Unfortunately the system is set up to fuel the economic system and often children are placed with the abuser. I believe this is not just because the empath with spend every penny they have fighting, but because the judges are sadistic by nature.
What your neighbor is going through is happening to millions of woman globally. The entire system is aware of this problem, however, it is very difficult to remove these people from positions of power.
Florida recently had a judge that was given a suspension, do to the vast abuse reported, and then Desantis reappointed him to a different court. These judges are an asset because without them they could not traffick children into the foster care system and they would lose billions.
The judge in my son's case was so abusive towards me, I wrote her a letter and told her off for her poor behavior. The letter was awesome!
That didn't go down well, but I did something that so many mothers wish they could have done at the time as the judge uses abuse of power over them to demand submission and respect.
What is very difficult for people to understand is that when you are fighting for our own safety and that of your child and you are met with a system designed to feed sadism - you can not win.
I believe we should give all mothers who are still fighting for justice the benefit of the doubt as if they were mothers not worthy of parenting their own child, they would have given up and not be asking for help.
Support of these victims need to understand how widespread the evil is in the family courts and began to look into the motives, such as profit and a sense of grandeur steaming from a cluster b personality disorder to start to remove judgment.
They estimate that more than 40% of the population supports pedophiles - this is a shocking number. However if you look at the development of cluster b personality disorders you can begin to understand how all the harm caused over the centuries through authoritarian parenting has meant a greater number of children grow into adults with unprocessed trauma and the feeling of inflicting their pain onto others as a toxic way to process.
These people surround themself with people who share these values and it can become very overwhelming for the safe parent who only understands positive parenting.
I believe this is all part of the spiritual warfare we are seeing in many sectors of society. I greatly appreciate all who raise awareness of this as if we can reduce the trauma children experience, we can create more productive societies.
Although you're not giving me a sense of easy optimism, I believe you're exactly the right person, Niki, that I wrote this hoping to attract. It's not a one-off fluke but a systemic rot in the whole shebang (and that word is so horribly appropriate.)
How do they come up with 40%? I've been doing a series on toxic masculinity and coming to the conclusion that it's at the heart of 5000 yrs leading to this culmination. I believe sincerely that we're at a turning point and that's why the worst thing we can possibly imagine--the abuse and torture of children--is coming to light now.
I'll be seeing the mom next week and helping her go over the transcripts she's ordered of her divorce hearings. So that should be very interesting. I'm sure I'll have more questions then but I know already that your presence is doing her a world of good. Thank you.
I need to rest a little bit as this is all very push and pulling on my energy, especially with the Sound of Corruption revealing so much and pulling on my emotional strings.
I'd like to help your neighbor if I can.
Can you tell me the child's age, the child's wishes and the mothers hopes.
As if the child is old enough, as it sounds like she is from the 10 year gap, and desires to live with her mother, and the mother has the means to take care of her, in an ideal world she can go to court and present this and the child's wishes should be granted, no child services required.
The one thing I would say is to make sure she records every conversation she has about her daughter with professionals, as well as family. I would also ask the child for permission to record, or do it in secret to protect from gaslighting.
From what I read about the abuse, I would take the child to the police and ask them to give a statement.
She needs to be careful not to speak during this or probe the daughter in any way, however she should insist that she is in the room.
There may be an advocate service that will sit in the room to keep the police honest.
I would say that she doesn't want to press charges, she only wants to have the abuse recorded at this time.
She needs to try to create a plan interns of how often the child wants to see the father. If it's not safe, the court can request supervised visitation. Does she want the child to have therapy? This is something the court could also arrange, if it's felt the father may object. Basically she needs to think of all the needs of the child and even there is one percent chance the father will object, it needs to be put in the court order.
For example, I had no clue my ex would try to prevent us going on a ski holiday. Cost me an extra $10k for an emergency hearing as he held the passport. Ironically this gave a court order to have a US passport issued and the demon judge 5 years later ordered the passport to be cancelled to punish me. It didn't punish me, it showed me how evil they were.
I have learned to be positively pessimistic. Meaning optimism in the government will only lead to trust that should not be given. Always assume they will do the worse and hope you are smart enough to see through their bs and make sure the child's needs are expressed.
You need to coach her to be 100% child focused.
I am asking for x, because my child is experiencing y, and they will benefit by z.
Everything needs to be praised like this.
If I think of anything else I will send it over. But my head is spinning. It's been a tough week, with the sound of freedom movie and all the corruption with that floating around putting pressure on me to do more.
Niki, I think that just your validation has helped her situation. It's very complicated because the 16 yr old daughter lives with the dad, stepmother and stepbrother in Idaho, where two of the stepmom's in-laws are in the sheriff dept and another is warden of the prison. He was given full custody by the corrupt judge in Solano, with any visitation at his full discretion. So the FBI only upholds custody orders and would be no help. He represented that the mom was living under a bridge with them and even had 'her mother' call in and say her daughter didn't want anything to do with the kids. The mom lives with her mom now, so she was shocked to hear that. I'm eager to see the transcripts because I think they'll be very revealing. And I'm thinking that the Solano Court is the place to challenge it since that judge has retired. But the dad is very volatile and dangerous, so whatever happens should happen all at once with all contingencies planned.
Get some rest, there's nothing to be done about it right now. I have faith that she's going to be okay until this can be figured out. Thanks again!
Oh my, this is almost unbelievable. So each party must live in a different state at this time? There is no lawyer that can be hired to do the investigation into all of the things you stated need looked into? Could a go fund me page be developed to fund an attorney? The father sounds rather desperate right now with that contract. Is the brother or sister older? The father may give up if he gets harassed enough or feels like all eyes are on him. Thanks for sharing
I don't believe the father's desperate at all. As far as he knows, everything's going to plan. And I think it's best to keep him that way. He's unaware that anyone knows what's going on.
If the dad feels threatened, the daughter could disappear. But there are some avenues the mom is exploring that I'm hopeful about. I don't want to talk about them here but I think this could turn out okay.
I have a copy of the response from CPS, which is 'unfortunately' there's nothing they can do in Idaho as long as there's a roof over her head and she's going to school. They didn't even interview her away from the stepmom, which should be the first thing CPS does. The school counselor and the doctor can do nothing, except report it to the Sheriff's office--which is where two of the stepmom's relatives work, including the slimeball who groped her at a family function and then taunted that no one would believe her. And that's definitely true.
Idaho seems to be a predator's paradise ... and hell for the prey. And yes, the mom and her daughter are very strong. Thanks for your thoughts and brainstorming, it helps.
What a gut wrenching, ongoing, tortuous story. Your transmission of this fierce mama, and her stalwart daughter is tremendous. I feel encouraged knowing that they are not giving up, in the face of so much insanity.
What I can offer - I'm working with a group of energy healers, and we are experimenting with tuning in to the energy of a situation and trying to shift things from that fundamental level. We're having some interesting successes! We've only been at it for a few months, and only recently started trying to help certain people - a health situation, a business situation, leadership situation, and I can't think of the others. Would the mother be interested in trying this approach? I'd have to talk with my group, but I imagine we could do this for free.
Additionally I use a karma release process that I could offer for free. This would be working with the mom, and again, going to the energy level.
I told her and her answer was "Heck yes!" I had a feeling that she'd be delighted and feel very supported by your offer of help. I'll connect you both over email.
That is so kind of you, marta! I will definitely extend your generous offer. I also feel this is what this group is too, a way of bringing the focus and energy to shifting the situation. In my heart, I have no doubt that it's going to work, and that your intentions are part of it. 'Fierce mama and stalwart daughter' is well said and I'll pass that on. Thank you for your knowledge that energy makes things happen.
This is horrendous. Your kindness and fierce mama bear reaction and action abounds, Tereza. Monsters are being exposed everywhere, even as a dark force seems to be protecting them more and more. Thank you for sharing.
That's funny, it's just the phrase the mom uses. She says, does he think this fierce mama bear is ever going to give up on her babies? No way! And I just talked to her and found some new things she's done that I'm very hopeful for. I think this is going to turn out well. I don't believe in a dark force protecting monsters, but I definitely feel a loving force protecting us bringing those monsters to justice.
That is a horrific story, and unfortunately I don't have any great ideas. The inability of the police to help mirrors my own experience: when my ex broke into my house and stole thousands of dollars worth of my personal property, the nice sheriff who came by a couple of days later said they couldn't do anything because it was a divorce issue. I hope this brave mom can find someone to help her to get around these kinds of roadblocks.
That's awful, Mark. I feel that the amount of useful functions being served by the police are dwindling quickly. I will relay the term 'brave' to her, which will mean a lot.
this is heartbreaking, will be praying for the safety & well being of mom & children.
expecting many tragic scenarios in California pending law allowing anonymous party to arbitrarily define an unrelated child’s sex without parental knowledge (nowhere will be safe including school, medical facilities):
I'm glad you're asking questions. So the husband sent the 'lawyer' to try to trick her (or maybe it was his idea) but she never fell for it. She sent the security guard to roust him. And remember, this is a woman who's being locked into her house while her husband's at work. Where is she going to get drugs? Maybe he thought she'd be so despondent with losing her kids that she'd have gone for it, who knows? And did he think she wouldn't recognize the person who delivered the news on the day her whole world came crashing down?
But I just talked with her and she was saying how smart she and her daughter thought it was that I was honest about not believing it when she first told me. She said that if she hadn't lived it, she wouldn't believe it either. So she was glad that I raised the question for the reader.
Thankyou for sharing Tereza: the impacts of abuse is a burden that must be shared among all who are trying to improve society. We have experienced a similar situation in our family, although fortunately children were not involved, and the abuse was psychological rather than physical (well, physical in terms of violence, because there is always a sexual component).
I am no fan of State intervention in personal and family life, for obvious reasons that have emerged over the last 3 and a half years. But there’s no doubt that for an unfortunate few who find themselves in situations of domestic abuse, we need institutions to intervene. There may not be a more morally vexing issue in society than domestic abuse and how we respond to it, particularly when it involves children.
I'm sorry for the situation in your family, Isaac. There are so many layers to abuse.
I wonder sometimes if it would be better without the institutions, since they so often seem to be the problem. And the extreme dependence of mothers on men for housing, in particular. I wonder how things might be different if we had matrilineal inheritance, so there would always be somewhere for mothers and their children to go.
Sometimes I imagine a group of men visiting extrajudicial justice upon such a man as that "father."
I'm glad you put 'father' in quotes, William. Yes, I don't think there's any greater example of toxic masculinity than a 'father' like this. The daughter also looks just like her mom, which might be a factor, and has her mom's stubbornness, which I think is serving her well.
Thank you for sharing and I've added these people to my prayers. I have no ability to suggest how this woman can proceed beyond the obvious don't stop the fight.
Like you I condemn the use of 'pedophilia' as a normalising word for abuse. Likely 30 years ago I did my best to suggest that 'misopediatry' or similar become the word used to describe the truth of what is being done. It is a huge sign, imo, that societally we have normalised the word 'pedophilia' as the sexual abuse of children. How different has that been than to use SIDS to normalise a child's death by injection.
Very good points all, Guy. I know the power of prayer is very meaningful to the mom.
Interesting that you also objected to the word.
On a happier note, I've been listening to Kerala Dust all night. And I showed my friend the videos of them and Laura Mvula, and she was gratifyingly blown away. For others, I'll link them here: Kerala Dust's Maria, with some great dancing. https://youtu.be/IoN_ZaoFSW8 and Laura Mvula https://youtu.be/hYjHixQ9Ns4.
There are several that I've been thinking I want to share with you but this is one of my favorites: Sun el-Musician's Uhuru: https://youtu.be/09AAsYxpiJk. I've never seen the video before but it seems sort of appropriate to the theme.
I enjoyed the video, thank you for sharing. In an interesting correlation to the themes of Carole King, the lyrics are stuck in a kind of victim mode. Ah, co-dependency and disempowerment floating around our orifices. Is that a measure of better seeing skills or being overly perspicacious? LOL! [Shrug.] Gracias.
Oh, did you find an English translation of them? I've used this song in my dance warmup but I've never read the lyrics.
They were included in the 'more' drop down with the video.
Here they are:
UHURU Lyrics Translated
Oh, Look at the black man, stretching out his arms in despair.
His path is gloomy
His problems never ending
He is looking for a job
There are no opportunities,
Oppression, Oppression
How long are we to suffer this way
Our children are always in need
We are not yet free, we are not yet free
Oh, Look at the black man
Stretching out his arms in despair
He is dependent on another
To carry him
Carry him like a bag
Oppression, Oppression
How long are we to suffer this way
Our children are in need
We are not yet free, we are not yet free
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Oh now I see them under the video. Coming from South Africa, I'd interpret them as more militant than victim. It seems to be a call to fight back. I don't understand the specific issues like 'fees must fall' but I can see how you would feel that reading the lyrics. Here's another of my favorite Sun el-Musician called Garden with this description "Incorporating electro pop, heartfelt lyrics “Garden” reminds us that we are loved and everything worthy begins from the inside out. So “plant your garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers” : https://youtu.be/K09EbOCfoGU.
So great that this music was well received and will spread. This kind of music has the power to heal. I felt the pain ease from my upper arms and shoulders the other day with Kerala Dust!
Prayers have been actually 'scientifically' (is it credible to use that word now that we have fully become aware we are living in the age of scientism?) proven.
Hmmm. Wasn't one of Gulliver's travels to a place of scientism? Time to re-read that book, I think.
And I'll listen to Uhuru later today. And is that a small synhchronicity? Yesterday my friends where I'm visiting were talking about the officer on the Starship Enterprise, UhurA. Maybe a stretch!? And yet... Life does have a delightful and subtle sense of humour, so maybe not. (And then I think of Laurie Anderson's concert, 'The Speed of Darkness' where she narrates the basic theme of the entire Startrek Series brilliantly, as being one of losing and regaining control. Song and life: is there a separation? LoL!)
All the best, with peace, respect, love and gratitude.
There are no small synchronicities, Guy, only ones that make you chuckle and ones that make you gasp ;-) It's like the Course saying there is no order of difficulty in miracles. If it's a dream, you can find a lost shoe as easily as saving the world. Once you know that you're doing it, nothing's any harder than anything else. However, I'm still looking for my lost shoe ;-)
Glad to have the spiritual connection between us, Guy.
Lol!
Yes. Igualmente
Tereza, what an absolutely horrific but all too believable report. Thank you for bringing the information forward. I know a little about human trafficking and satanic ritual abuse of both children and adults from having followed Sarah Westall for many years, including reports like this:
https://sarahwestall.com/predators-with-badges-the-sex-traffickers-on-americas-police-forces/
Sadly, I do not know what to suggest apart from perhaps researching ideas and the experiences of others at Sarah's website. I know she has covered child rescue. Sorry for such a weak reply. One feels so helpless.
I read some of Sarah's article but I'm not sure I can read anymore before bed. Yes, I know some about the police corruption in trafficking, and also the Iraq veterans code of silence, which includes this guy.
I'm glad you're still reading, Tirion, I was afraid I'd offended you with my last comment about reading my book. It's hard to convey tone of voice in text, but I meant my chiding to be teasing, not lecturing.
Tereza, that article is one of so many, and probably not even the most pertinent. One could spend all day! In the circumstances, you could consider writing directly to Sarah to discover what her knowledge and experience would suggest: sarahw at galexconsulting dot com ?
As for your last comment, it was a completely fair tease and I certainly did not take offense. It is true that I have not read your book and therefore comment from a place of ignorance. Unfortunately, I am partially-sighted and, while I can manage the internet using a large-screen TV, books are a somewhat laborious challenge and rather tiring. I wish it were otherwise, but there we are! No fault.
Ah, another reason to do an audio version. Thanks for that encouragement!
Yes, I must admit audio books are a godsend!
In 1996 my ex's daughter and I had a long conversation in private where she told me that it was a great relief when I moved in with them because I became her shield. I took the brunt of the abuse. I promised her I would do everything in my power to stay long enough for her to be able to stand on her own.
In 2003, twenty years ago later this fall, she moved out and went to university. I moved out in late November, and her mother moved out the week before I did. The house was sold, of course.
Today I finished off my bonus daughter's cherry wood kitchen counter. It is now beautiful. An early birthday present.
That's such a beautiful story, thank you for telling me. I've been hearing more and more about women who are the abusers, including the one I call the evil step in this story. From the daughter, she's the one who's physically hit, slammed, choked and beaten them.
I have some bonus daughters myself, friends of my daughters who came from abusive and dysfunctional families. Their loss, my gain. Your bonus daughter is fortunate to have had someone as strong as you enter her life.
"That's such a beautiful story, thank you for telling me."
Not to mention c) I had to share that story as a counter weight to your horrific post.
But you came to this one, right, after reading the happy ending I posted last night?
https://thirdparadigm.substack.com/p/the-mother-child-reunion
Yes, I did. We have a ten hour time difference, BTW.
I just had a need to a) point out that not all men are the bad guys, and b) the woman in the relationship isn't always the victim.
My questions are: Does the judge have any sons? Do they have abusive spouses. In that case it's an explanation, but no excuse for her neglecting her duties.
If I've indicated that I think all men are the bad guys, please let me know so I can change that. We live in a system that's chewing everyone up and spitting them out, men and women. It is, however, a patriarchal system that serves the ejaculations of men who get off on wielding power over others. And there are plenty of women like Hilary or Vicki Nuland who I call patriarchs without penises. Ending the system that gives power over others is my goal, not blaming individuals.
If I were to get psychological, I might look at the judge's relationship with her own mother. And whether she doesn't have kids and resents mothers. But the explanation on the surface is purely monetary. She gained financially from every mother forced to hire her husband just to stay out of her court. The deeper, darker question is why the Judicial Review Board protected her despite the numerous complaints and well-documented pattern of bias. We know that a child-rape network exists at the highest level of the political, economic and judicial systems. Is favoring abusive dads, which was her reputation, a way of making victims available to a perpetrator network?
No, no, no, no, no, no, no! No! By no means, Misunderstand me correctly.
Remember the psy-op Sonny and Chere? Chere and her record company made big money for a while.
Remember the psy-op Ike and Tina? Her career got a new start. She even made it to the silver screen.
Rember the psy-op "The Burning Bed"? I saw it when it came out. Then I saw it again during the nineties. When the cabinet with the towels was opened I freaked out.
This gives me a little bit better context, after reading your previous post. Bias judges is one of the issues in family court trafficking I advocate for.
Unfortunately the system is set up to fuel the economic system and often children are placed with the abuser. I believe this is not just because the empath with spend every penny they have fighting, but because the judges are sadistic by nature.
What your neighbor is going through is happening to millions of woman globally. The entire system is aware of this problem, however, it is very difficult to remove these people from positions of power.
Florida recently had a judge that was given a suspension, do to the vast abuse reported, and then Desantis reappointed him to a different court. These judges are an asset because without them they could not traffick children into the foster care system and they would lose billions.
The judge in my son's case was so abusive towards me, I wrote her a letter and told her off for her poor behavior. The letter was awesome!
That didn't go down well, but I did something that so many mothers wish they could have done at the time as the judge uses abuse of power over them to demand submission and respect.
What is very difficult for people to understand is that when you are fighting for our own safety and that of your child and you are met with a system designed to feed sadism - you can not win.
I believe we should give all mothers who are still fighting for justice the benefit of the doubt as if they were mothers not worthy of parenting their own child, they would have given up and not be asking for help.
Support of these victims need to understand how widespread the evil is in the family courts and began to look into the motives, such as profit and a sense of grandeur steaming from a cluster b personality disorder to start to remove judgment.
They estimate that more than 40% of the population supports pedophiles - this is a shocking number. However if you look at the development of cluster b personality disorders you can begin to understand how all the harm caused over the centuries through authoritarian parenting has meant a greater number of children grow into adults with unprocessed trauma and the feeling of inflicting their pain onto others as a toxic way to process.
These people surround themself with people who share these values and it can become very overwhelming for the safe parent who only understands positive parenting.
I believe this is all part of the spiritual warfare we are seeing in many sectors of society. I greatly appreciate all who raise awareness of this as if we can reduce the trauma children experience, we can create more productive societies.
And to answer your question is it legal? No it's not. Taking someone against their will, under fraudulent terms is kidnapping.
If a judge has all this information on abuse and still orders the abuser custody it is an illegal kidnapping aided by the government.
We need to start calling it what it is. Fraud. Kidnapping. Child abuse.
If they get paid to do it, it's human trafficking.
Although you're not giving me a sense of easy optimism, I believe you're exactly the right person, Niki, that I wrote this hoping to attract. It's not a one-off fluke but a systemic rot in the whole shebang (and that word is so horribly appropriate.)
How do they come up with 40%? I've been doing a series on toxic masculinity and coming to the conclusion that it's at the heart of 5000 yrs leading to this culmination. I believe sincerely that we're at a turning point and that's why the worst thing we can possibly imagine--the abuse and torture of children--is coming to light now.
I'll be seeing the mom next week and helping her go over the transcripts she's ordered of her divorce hearings. So that should be very interesting. I'm sure I'll have more questions then but I know already that your presence is doing her a world of good. Thank you.
I need to rest a little bit as this is all very push and pulling on my energy, especially with the Sound of Corruption revealing so much and pulling on my emotional strings.
I'd like to help your neighbor if I can.
Can you tell me the child's age, the child's wishes and the mothers hopes.
As if the child is old enough, as it sounds like she is from the 10 year gap, and desires to live with her mother, and the mother has the means to take care of her, in an ideal world she can go to court and present this and the child's wishes should be granted, no child services required.
The one thing I would say is to make sure she records every conversation she has about her daughter with professionals, as well as family. I would also ask the child for permission to record, or do it in secret to protect from gaslighting.
From what I read about the abuse, I would take the child to the police and ask them to give a statement.
She needs to be careful not to speak during this or probe the daughter in any way, however she should insist that she is in the room.
There may be an advocate service that will sit in the room to keep the police honest.
I would say that she doesn't want to press charges, she only wants to have the abuse recorded at this time.
She needs to try to create a plan interns of how often the child wants to see the father. If it's not safe, the court can request supervised visitation. Does she want the child to have therapy? This is something the court could also arrange, if it's felt the father may object. Basically she needs to think of all the needs of the child and even there is one percent chance the father will object, it needs to be put in the court order.
For example, I had no clue my ex would try to prevent us going on a ski holiday. Cost me an extra $10k for an emergency hearing as he held the passport. Ironically this gave a court order to have a US passport issued and the demon judge 5 years later ordered the passport to be cancelled to punish me. It didn't punish me, it showed me how evil they were.
I have learned to be positively pessimistic. Meaning optimism in the government will only lead to trust that should not be given. Always assume they will do the worse and hope you are smart enough to see through their bs and make sure the child's needs are expressed.
You need to coach her to be 100% child focused.
I am asking for x, because my child is experiencing y, and they will benefit by z.
Everything needs to be praised like this.
If I think of anything else I will send it over. But my head is spinning. It's been a tough week, with the sound of freedom movie and all the corruption with that floating around putting pressure on me to do more.
Niki, I think that just your validation has helped her situation. It's very complicated because the 16 yr old daughter lives with the dad, stepmother and stepbrother in Idaho, where two of the stepmom's in-laws are in the sheriff dept and another is warden of the prison. He was given full custody by the corrupt judge in Solano, with any visitation at his full discretion. So the FBI only upholds custody orders and would be no help. He represented that the mom was living under a bridge with them and even had 'her mother' call in and say her daughter didn't want anything to do with the kids. The mom lives with her mom now, so she was shocked to hear that. I'm eager to see the transcripts because I think they'll be very revealing. And I'm thinking that the Solano Court is the place to challenge it since that judge has retired. But the dad is very volatile and dangerous, so whatever happens should happen all at once with all contingencies planned.
Get some rest, there's nothing to be done about it right now. I have faith that she's going to be okay until this can be figured out. Thanks again!
I will respond more on the toxic masculinity and percentages later 💐
Oh my, this is almost unbelievable. So each party must live in a different state at this time? There is no lawyer that can be hired to do the investigation into all of the things you stated need looked into? Could a go fund me page be developed to fund an attorney? The father sounds rather desperate right now with that contract. Is the brother or sister older? The father may give up if he gets harassed enough or feels like all eyes are on him. Thanks for sharing
I don't believe the father's desperate at all. As far as he knows, everything's going to plan. And I think it's best to keep him that way. He's unaware that anyone knows what's going on.
If the dad feels threatened, the daughter could disappear. But there are some avenues the mom is exploring that I'm hopeful about. I don't want to talk about them here but I think this could turn out okay.
I thought that the school and cps was watching her closely, that's why I thought the way I did.
I sure hope it turns out well for them. I can't imagine what everyone involved has gone thru. What an amazingly strong family.
I have a copy of the response from CPS, which is 'unfortunately' there's nothing they can do in Idaho as long as there's a roof over her head and she's going to school. They didn't even interview her away from the stepmom, which should be the first thing CPS does. The school counselor and the doctor can do nothing, except report it to the Sheriff's office--which is where two of the stepmom's relatives work, including the slimeball who groped her at a family function and then taunted that no one would believe her. And that's definitely true.
Idaho seems to be a predator's paradise ... and hell for the prey. And yes, the mom and her daughter are very strong. Thanks for your thoughts and brainstorming, it helps.
What a gut wrenching, ongoing, tortuous story. Your transmission of this fierce mama, and her stalwart daughter is tremendous. I feel encouraged knowing that they are not giving up, in the face of so much insanity.
What I can offer - I'm working with a group of energy healers, and we are experimenting with tuning in to the energy of a situation and trying to shift things from that fundamental level. We're having some interesting successes! We've only been at it for a few months, and only recently started trying to help certain people - a health situation, a business situation, leadership situation, and I can't think of the others. Would the mother be interested in trying this approach? I'd have to talk with my group, but I imagine we could do this for free.
Additionally I use a karma release process that I could offer for free. This would be working with the mom, and again, going to the energy level.
If either of these are of interest to you or her, you can reach me at Marta@InnerArtistry.space.
Thanks for sharing, and thanks for asking for help. I hope lots of helpful options come through.
I told her and her answer was "Heck yes!" I had a feeling that she'd be delighted and feel very supported by your offer of help. I'll connect you both over email.
Love. I look forward to hearing from you both.
That is so kind of you, marta! I will definitely extend your generous offer. I also feel this is what this group is too, a way of bringing the focus and energy to shifting the situation. In my heart, I have no doubt that it's going to work, and that your intentions are part of it. 'Fierce mama and stalwart daughter' is well said and I'll pass that on. Thank you for your knowledge that energy makes things happen.
This is horrendous. Your kindness and fierce mama bear reaction and action abounds, Tereza. Monsters are being exposed everywhere, even as a dark force seems to be protecting them more and more. Thank you for sharing.
That's funny, it's just the phrase the mom uses. She says, does he think this fierce mama bear is ever going to give up on her babies? No way! And I just talked to her and found some new things she's done that I'm very hopeful for. I think this is going to turn out well. I don't believe in a dark force protecting monsters, but I definitely feel a loving force protecting us bringing those monsters to justice.
That is a horrific story, and unfortunately I don't have any great ideas. The inability of the police to help mirrors my own experience: when my ex broke into my house and stole thousands of dollars worth of my personal property, the nice sheriff who came by a couple of days later said they couldn't do anything because it was a divorce issue. I hope this brave mom can find someone to help her to get around these kinds of roadblocks.
That's awful, Mark. I feel that the amount of useful functions being served by the police are dwindling quickly. I will relay the term 'brave' to her, which will mean a lot.
this is heartbreaking, will be praying for the safety & well being of mom & children.
expecting many tragic scenarios in California pending law allowing anonymous party to arbitrarily define an unrelated child’s sex without parental knowledge (nowhere will be safe including school, medical facilities):
https://factslawtruthjustice.substack.com/p/ab223-youre-up?publication_id=944553&isFreemail=true
Thanks for the prayers, kitten. The mom is subscribed so they'll likely be reading and I know they'll appreciate them too.
Sad story but I'm confused about one thing.
First you say she didn't do drugs...
Only to later say that she was tricked by the lawyer who asked her if she wanted to do drugs out back?
Oh I realized too that I'd forgotten to put in that she told him she'd meet him out back. That made it confusing! Thanks for catching that.
I'm glad you're asking questions. So the husband sent the 'lawyer' to try to trick her (or maybe it was his idea) but she never fell for it. She sent the security guard to roust him. And remember, this is a woman who's being locked into her house while her husband's at work. Where is she going to get drugs? Maybe he thought she'd be so despondent with losing her kids that she'd have gone for it, who knows? And did he think she wouldn't recognize the person who delivered the news on the day her whole world came crashing down?
But I just talked with her and she was saying how smart she and her daughter thought it was that I was honest about not believing it when she first told me. She said that if she hadn't lived it, she wouldn't believe it either. So she was glad that I raised the question for the reader.