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Prokopton's avatar

Let me see if I understand correctly:

You coined the term "tonic masculinity," with a specific meaning behind it. That meaning has been lost in the shuffle.

You saw other people on Substack appropriate your term without crediting you for coining it. One of whom was Charles Eisenstein.

But did Charles use the term as you used it or was he one of the re-definers?

Because it's emerged that he's appropriated the language of The New Story and the Old Story from someone named Thomas Berry, without credit. And he took the term Interbeing from Thich Nhat Hanh without mentioning his source. Seems Charles thinks living in the Gift means he's entitled to lift ideas and concepts and terminology without giving due credit to his sources.

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Visceral Adventure's avatar

Spent my 20s looking around for some intoxicating masculinity but guess how much of that existed in the theatre world. 😂

I kid, I kid. I don’t know if I ever looked too deep into all this in a philosophical way. I excelled in male dominated fields because it was fun and the pay was good. Driving big vehicles and heavy machinery wasnt all that difficult (and probably a bit easier for women to drive fork lifts, for example, because our periphery is an advantage) but earned some street cred in blue collar communities. The work flowed easier because the banter was oh, so not PC, especially in construction when any name for hardware is a euphemism for something phallic. No one got canceled, it was good natured and you bet that the few times an outsider turned threatening, my colleagues bared their teeth.

This is such a contrast to something I just saw on X with a lady talking about how the execs at one of those Diddy parties averted their eyes as she was pleading for help when she was about to get raped.

I don’t know if I have an actual point. I wish we could stress less about dividing factors. In the end, I truly love what you were aging about the big war being that between those who wish to be governed and those who chose autonomy. Almost everything can be reduced to that. Even the toxic/tonic masculinity which men and women both play a role in.

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